1. Decorating for Hannuakah and Christmas.
2. A free pre-lit Christmas tree.
3. The menorah H made in preschool.
4. Using the little tree in our family room and putting the big tree in the front room.
5. Looking at ornaments for C's first Christmas.
6. Starting to slip into the negative family pattern and realizing it.
   
7. Removing myself from that situation.
8. Acting as I would feel.
9. Choosing to be happier and then taking actions toward that end.
10. Mashed potato soup for dinner.
11. Stuffing meatloaf for lunch tomorrow.
12. www.headbutler.com
13. Knowing I'm going to be ok regardless of the choices family members make.
14. Knowing I can love them and live my own life.
15. Knowing it's not easy but it's also not 'all or nothing'.
16. My mom.
17. Sean and our girls.
18. Interesting reading recommendations.
19. Sitting on the couch next to Sean.
20. Stretching when my body aches.